I Walked Through the Fire. NOW I Help Others Avoid It.
Some people view divorce as an escape out of their troubled marital predicament. The supposed escape can unfortunately become an even greater imprisonment. Whilst the prison bars may initially not show themselves, they eventually do some time down the line. The scars of emotional trauma that are part of a marriage break-up never disappear with the Issuing of a divorce decree. They instead linger like a festering sore that takes time to heal.
Sometimes it never heals, and the trauma becomes a life-long journeying accompaniment that is taken to the grave. Worse still in many cases, is in it becoming transferred to the next generation. Parents in conflict with each other present a far worse scenario for their children to inherit, if they indeed part ways with each other. Divorce, tragically, is a gift that keeps on giving in its destructive outcomes. It may remove a present problem, but it attaches an even greater future burden on all who are directly affected by it.
Marriage never exists in isolation. It is inextricably linked to family, so saving a marriage is saving the family. I know what marriage turmoil feels like. I lived it. I walked through it. It is the most traumatic experience I have ever gone through. I’m here to help you avoid it.
MARRIAGE ◊ COVENANT ◊ FAMILY ◊ COMMITMENT
01. Marriage Is Sacred and Must Be Defended
Divorce is not God’s will, but rather an ungodly act that destroys families. My mission is rooted in the conviction that marriage is a divine covenant, and must be protected at all costs.
02. Transform Pain into Purpose to Help Others
From my own personal marriage experience, I’ve chosen to help save others’ marriages through writing, counseling and teaching. Knowledge on its own is good, but knowledge coupled with experience is far greater.
03. Free, Compassionate Support
Saving a marriage is far more important than money. My offer of free help reflects my belief that “God puts an incredibly high value on marriage,” and no one should be turned away due to cost.
Sad Truths
The Numbers Don’t Lie
91% – the likelihood of divorcing if your parent/s married others after divorcing.
Over 70% of children from broken homes report feeling “abandoned” or “torn between parents” long after the divorce.
50% – the number of parents and children that move into poverty after a divorce.
97% – the risk of divorce where the wife works and the husband is a ‘minimal contributor’
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Likelihood of Divorcing
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Move into Poverty
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Torn Between Parents
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Husband Minimal Contributor
Explore My Books
My books are born from pain and written with the quest to find God’s truth concerning marriage. The purpose is to arm you with this truth, so you know what you’re up against, and you know how to fight for your marriage.
Free Consultation
You don’t have to walk this road alone. I’ve been where you are; probably even worse than where you find yourself. I know the intensity of this battle – I know ostracization, I know depression, I know abandonment. I’m here to help you avoid this path.
My Blog
Here, I write about the hidden wounds of divorce, the trauma of being torn from your home, the spiritual battle behind broken marriages, and the hope that still remains.